Myths of relationships

Hello to all couples, today we are here with one of the most interesting topics of relationship which is about some of the well-known MYTHS of RELATIONSHIP. Sometimes we start believing in some common myths and ruin our relation with partner. It is human nature that whatever they listen about the relationship they start to apply it to their relationship. But we never thought that love; care, sex, happiness, and other priorities are different depending on each person’s nature, needs and desire.

There are few relationships myths which are not true in actual but people believe it the fact and start doubting on their partners. Here are some of the common relationship myths which are totally wrong. Check out:

# Opposite attracts

One of the most common and popular relationship myth is that the opposite people always attract to each other but this is not a fact. This myth is mostly believed by the young or teenagers and they attract the person who is totally different from them. For example, a good girl falls in love with a bad boy just because she had made her mind and thought that only bad boy will love him unconditionally.

But the fact is that two people attract to each other when they feel something for each other. No matter what they are opposite to each other or have the same qualities. If the couple is having a mutual understanding between each other then they are the happy couple ever.

# Love Birds never fight

Again a myth that the true lovers never fight with each other. But in actual, there is no relation which has never been argued for anything. Some experts say that it is necessary to fight and argue with each other to eliminate the possibility of misunderstandings. So, if you have a fight with your husband or lover then don’t feel depressed because the fights among couples are natural.

# Sex frequency

The biggest relation myth is about the frequency of sex in a week or month. It is a total myth that the couples who intimate once or twice in a week are an ideal couple. But sex is not the thing to figure out. Rather it is a feeling to enjoy with pleasure and happiness. Sex is done when it is needed by both couples. So, if you are not in a mood to make love for the whole weeks then don’t feel depressed because this is your understanding and respect for each other.

# Marriage is the solution

Some love birds have a continuous fight but they think that marriage will solve the problem. If you are also the one who is thinking the same then please move on with your relation. You are in a relationship where there is no understanding and bonding. This is not loving, this is just an attraction and you cannot survive with a person who you don’t love.

# Conceiving baby makes bond

Sometimes we are forcibly married to someone with whom we are unable to make connections and bonding. Again a myth grows up in such relation that if they will plan a baby then surely they will able to set up a bond with each other. However, it can happen by intimating with each other but the entry of baby will develop love between you is s myth. Even after having a baby you will not get time for each other and hence more distance between both of you.

# True lovers know your needs and desires

Again a Myth of relationship, that if your partner loves you a lot, he/she should know that what is running in your mind.  Please give some space dear couples to each other because they are your soul mate and not some mind reader. Speak out the words in front of each other and say clearly that what you need. Don’t aspect things as you saw in movies because they are getting paid to do such bullshit and you are living in real life where you have to do many works for survival.  So, please don’t trust these reel life things and stay practical in real life.

# Men are a cheater

Oh really, Do you think so? There is no fact that men are always a cheater. This is a total myth because men can maintain a good relationship with a strong connection and bonding with his lovable without betraying her trust. This thing comes in mind when you have less trust in your men. Don’t doubt him for every little thing otherwise; you are going to lose him for a lifetime. For example, If your man comes late then don’t start blaming him and doubting him. Rather you can do one thing that whatever is running in your minds tell him so that he can give his explanation that why he is late. This is a true fact that all men are not a cheater and also this is not possible that all men can be loyal and honest.

# Changing nature

This is a total myth that the love birds never change for each other. But this is not so because sometimes situation changes the behavior of your partner. Be prepared for the changes because a person cannot stay the same as you met him the first time. Whatever be the changes comes in your partner but it is very important to be loving and supportive of each other.

# Love is enough

Do you think that you can survive with only love? Obviously no, as because you will need a lot more things to make your love and family happy. You cannot eat love, drink love, wear love and live in love. For all these things you need extra effort and determination so that you can earn a better living. Yes, we can say that love is compulsory to support your partner’s effort but only love is not enough for a loving good relationship.

# Physical relation is necessary

Some think that sex and physical relationship are important to maintaining a healthy relationship but this is not fact. The relationship which is cultivated with emotional attachment, understanding, taking responsibilities, obligations, making adjustments, dedication, sacrifice, etc are the best relationship and stay together for the long term.